When Threats Don't Work

The first step is to sneak inside bonta, all the way to the Order's Tower. Go to the top floor and check all the bookcases, one of them contains a letter from "Mr. X" After that, the map where woman make charming companions is the tavern where Lady Marmalade is which means Bagrutte's Inn. Talk to the Tavern master and either pay or beat him up. He's quite weak so very easy to win against. He sends you to the handyman district to talk to Xelora Busai which is one map below handyman workshop. After that it's to oto again and you get lvl 41 alignement.